Displacement.
My father goes under the knife tomorrow morning. I probably won’t be awake at that time, but when I wake, I will know his chest is open. They will have cut an incision more than a foot long from gullet to navel and sailed right in there to fix him.
Lucky for me, I am the Queen of Displacement Activity. To take my mind off things, I went over to Arwen’s today and washed the fir dust off all her dishes and pots and pans, and a lot of furniture as well. Then I came home and washed all the bedding, made a full roast beef dinner, and gave my landlord’s daughter E’s old cell phone. E is catching the displacement bug. He hung hooks for coats and towels, folded all his laundry and cleaned the catbox.
Good thoughts, please, people. Good thoughts, please.
By Deb, October 28, 2007 @ 10:17 pm
All the good thoughts in the world to your Dad and you.
By Arwen, October 28, 2007 @ 10:20 pm
Holding him in the light, as we say.
By stephanie, October 29, 2007 @ 8:21 am
Good thoughts
When my dad had surgery a few years ago for a tumor in his colon, I cleaned the house five times.
By Liz, October 29, 2007 @ 9:13 am
Stephanie, I am about to start on the floors. Again.
Thank you guys.
By elswhere, October 29, 2007 @ 9:29 am
Thinking of you, and your dad.
By sarah, October 29, 2007 @ 1:51 pm
Good thoughts (and prayers) winging their way from here.